tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post5048005782494364074..comments2022-12-03T01:16:00.133-08:00Comments on Brigit Writes: BaggageBrigit Delaneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04242367543771789900noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post-90085754789867889702018-01-27T17:40:04.373-08:002018-01-27T17:40:04.373-08:00Oh! I love new friends! I can't seem to find y...Oh! I love new friends! I can't seem to find your blog, however. What is the url? And thanks for the thread suggestion.Brigit Delaneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04242367543771789900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post-796757807926568582018-01-27T17:39:21.271-08:002018-01-27T17:39:21.271-08:00You are always so supportive Marie. I DO think thi...You are always so supportive Marie. I DO think things have been better recently. But, now it seems that his libido is the one suffering. I believe the majority of what he is going through now has nothing to do with me...it's a personal crisis that he needs to address on his own. Now I'm the one asking for him to want me, which is a painful turn around. I'm not sure how it will turn out, but after looking through all my old blog posts and really realizing just how long our issues have been going on, it makes me feel sort of tired. We have our love and our connection. And we have our son. We also respect one another a great deal...so I know that if it comes to it, we will both deal with a split rationally. I still hope it doesn't go there...but...Brigit Delaneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04242367543771789900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post-67825870041698831322018-01-27T17:35:57.682-08:002018-01-27T17:35:57.682-08:00We are basically the opposite. He would love to se...We are basically the opposite. He would love to see me entertain a "boyfriend" or have a relationship on the side, whereas...my jealousy issues get in the way of him having it. It's sadly ironic, because he's the one who wants it, and I would rather not. I also don't mind it, when the opportunity arises organically, but that doesn't happen often.Brigit Delaneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04242367543771789900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post-12948340553345693462018-01-27T00:42:27.044-08:002018-01-27T00:42:27.044-08:00I found your post through Indie's blog as she ...I found your post through Indie's blog as she linked us together, and it was such a heartfelt read. I blog about having a low sex drive and it can feel so lonely and isolating. I find the Reddit deadbedrooms threads really enlightening, and there are so many reasons why we can have a LL- including health trauma. Wishing you luck, and hope that perhaps we can bond over the bloggersphere and help each other :) xSexponentialhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09204031467831455004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post-68680554074890576252018-01-26T09:51:23.221-08:002018-01-26T09:51:23.221-08:00I am so sorry that things still seem to be bad. Th...I am so sorry that things still seem to be bad. Thank you for more background information. I have read many posts about your marriage and notice that you really try hard to make things better, but like you say, it's a marriage and that means two people need to work hard. You have love and you should think that it would mean that things will work out and I really hope it does, but I hope you can find happiness too, even if it means that has to be without your husband. Wishing you all the strength in the world!<br /><br />Rebel xoxMarie Rebellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06672279000623986382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post-53190851114245653302018-01-25T09:11:20.574-08:002018-01-25T09:11:20.574-08:00What an amazingly personal account about your life...What an amazingly personal account about your life. Thank u for sharing and I really hope you can find a solution. Life can be so difficult at times even when you think you found somebody special - good luck Brigit ;-)May Morehttp://ifsexmatters.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6275650973356548205.post-36520809466495600332018-01-25T07:14:23.337-08:002018-01-25T07:14:23.337-08:00I wish you luck with this. It is indeed a tough on...I wish you luck with this. It is indeed a tough one to work through. We used to call ourselves monogomish, in that we were emotional monogamous but if the opportunity arose we were interested in having FMF 3somes. That has changed as Michael found a girlfriend and fell in love with her and so we are not poly. I like it. I am good at it. I actually really enjoy it. The problem comes though if I wanted someone else because Michael is issues with jealousy that so far we have not been able to find a solution too<br /><br />Mollyxmollyhttp://mollysdailykiss.comnoreply@blogger.com